Episode description: Is dating in real life dead? In this episode we look into the the rise of online dating and discuss if dating in real life from start to finish is even a thing anymore. We welcome a special guest! Sophia joins us to give her perspective and strategies for dating from the perspective of someone that has been off the market for 10 years and is just getting back into the scene. For those of you that are over online dating, we provide tips for changing up your dating approach.
We start the episode by reviewing the history of online dating and the websites and apps that have shaped the future of dating. You can read the entire article here.
The milestones at a glance:
- Match launched in 1995
- AIM launched in 1997
- eHarmony launched in 2000
- OKCupid 2000s
- Tinder’s arrival in 2012
Now that we have spent dating online for over 20 years, economists have looked into the impact online dating has made on society. These are the findings:
- more than ⅓ of marriages start online
- There is evidence that suggests that relationships that start from online dating lead to stronger and more diverse marriages
- The economists examining the trends are Josué Ortega and Philipp Hergovich. They are looking at the data on how marriages and relationships are forming. The have found that online dating tools may actually be helping more people get together in new ways.
We talk about these findings and infuse our perspective of what we find interesting.
Sophia, Westley, Maddie, and Lina D all share their personal experiences with dating online and in real life. Sophia gives her perspective on the importance of having a dating strategy so that you don’t waste your time. We also talk through the pros and cons of dating in real life. You will want to listen to the entire episode, but here are some teasers:
- My last relationship and most recent situationships started online but I feel like I’m a harsher judge with those guys on the onset and just expect bullshit. Since the connection happened online, I am more skeptical. -Maddie
- I think the benefits of meeting in real life are more intangible. There is an element of security tied to meeting someone in person. You feel an instant attraction and know the chemistry is real. This makes you more driven to get to know that person. -Lina D
- Meeting in real life is better because the catfish factor is non-existent. -Westley
And to wrap this episode Maddie provides her tips for getting off the apps and putting yourself out there to meet people in real life.